Year 2007.........07th December........Good Day.....

Today, is my best friend in this company registration day.....
so, I wish her happy forever.....
I remember i wrote in my blog previously,
said that, most of the people choose to marry,
because they believe that, there is the peak of the relationship of two person......
actually is not.....is actually the new beginning for those person.....
if wanna to know more, just go to read my old post...hihi

Okay, talk about other.....
this few day......I have lot conversation with my best friend....
especially talk about their working life....
I found that, most of the people after join a company,
they like start to blame that company,
even there is just a small mistake done by the boss, or their management.....
or there is so unfair in that company, no benefit, lot works or whatever...
so many complain....so many thing cant make them satisfied.

I remember i have one ex-collegue, when he planned to resign......
that time, he start to talk lot of worst thing about the company.....
and the best what the new company will provided to him.....
so, less than few months in that new company, he resign again.....
and come back to his old company......

This make me think...how come as a people....
we can have so many blame, so many complain,
is it as a people, we have to be that perfect.......
or we need other to be perfect well treated us?

when he at the old company, he have a lot complain......
and there is so many advantage and
benefit he can have in the new company....
but how come, when he join he new company,
he still cannot get himself satisfied to what he need previoisly?

I got one friend, she told me her boss didnt confirm her for her probation....
she planned to resign.....she thought the management is not so good....
not professional, not what she expect......

and i have one more friend also,
he told me the boss load him too much....
he cant cope, and still have to cope....because it is a order.....
he cant do anything, only can just accept.....
then, make himself not so happy in this field,
no personal life.....plan to resign

So, i told to my first friend, if your boss didnt confirm you,
why dont you straight away highlight to him or management....
fight for your own good....instead of just stay there and blaming?
fight for our own good is our responsibility, not other,
if yourself also didnt fight for your own good,
who can you blame, except yourself, right?

for my second friend, he said there is no point to fight.......
it wont be success one.....
but u come to tell me without fighting for yourself,
what i can say.....

I know sometime is very difficult for us to fight.....
the possibility to win is low, but at least we had try......
at least we know we are trying......
trying doesnt mean we can win.....or success.....
trying at least we know that is the best we had done.....
and we wont blame.....
because is the time we have to make our own decision...
either wanna to stay or to leave.....this is so call fair....
fair to ourselves, and fair to other........

that all i think for today......
if there is something wrong i had say, please correct me....
Take care my friend...and thanks to support my blog.....

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