Year 2008.......17th January.......Sunny Day....

Previously, I have a friend,
after having coffee with him and other colleague,
He message to me and said sorry because of make me feel bored.....
I didnt reply to him, because that time I dunno how to say.....
Untill yesterday night, I message to him......

Previously in that tea time,
I in quiet, and didnt talk too much.....
because is he and my other colleague talking (complain) about this company...
and complain about the boss....
I didnt say anything, because in my mind,
I should not do that.....

Untill yesterday, is the same thing happen again,
so, I message to him and ask him.......
The boss like to complain the staff....
said the staff didnt perform well, not clever enough,
Didnt hardworking, and blaaa blaa blaa,
so, do you think this kind of boss/person can go far,
go further?

The answer is no, right.....
but how come, we as a staff ,
we also doing the same thing...
sitting there and complain about our boss.....
What is the different between him and us?

If we dont want others to complain about us....
First we have to do is dont complain others......
if we still want the same respect from others.....

I understand that sometimes, even we didnt do our complain......
but others still will complain us,
then that is out from our control already....
We cant stop others to do what they want to do,
but we can control what we going to do for others.....

I hope my this friend can understand what I wanna said to him.....
and also for those who follow my blog....
also can try our best, not to complain so much......
complain so much, will make our friend away from us.....
try to be a listener, and try to be accept others.....

If others still complain us, so, just asking yourself.......
did you done your best?
did you make anything wrong?
Did you try to solve?
Did you make something illegal?

If no.....What for we need to be angry,
and what for we need to complain others?
Let make the world more HAPPY

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